WELCOME

WELCOME

Every journey matters. i am here to support you through it all—affirming, empowering, and standing by you through every decision and every experience.

MEET YOUR DOULA

Hi, I’m Hawaii Holloway.

Yes, like the state! I'm located in Durham, NC.

I am 27 years old and have been to more funerals in my life than births. I want to change that. I don't have any children of my own just yet, however, I've been interested in childbirth, pregnancy, and babies since I was about 12 years old. I love children, the art of childbirth, and assisting others during stressful moments. I love, love, and I love LIFE. Childbirth is beautiful but is also traumatic, especially for black persons of color and 2SLGBTQIA+ birthing persons with less access to resources. I want to be a source of safety, joy, and security.

I eventually want to open a birthing center in my local community that has a focus on LGBTQ members, as we need more resources with the rise of queer families. If anyone would like to be friends, collaborate, or follow my journey, please message me on IG: @mybirthingbestie. Well wishes to you wonderful souls! I'm manifesting greatness for you all.

My birth philosophy

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My birth philosophy *

Every birthing person and pregnancy is different and everything you go through is tailored for your unique birth experience.

Every birthing person should have the opportunity to:

  • Have a healthy and joyful birth experience for themselves and their family, regardless of age or circumstances;

  • Give birth as they wish in an environment in which they feel nurtured, secure, and respected;

  • Have access to the full range of options for pregnancy, birth, and nurturing their baby

  • Receive support for making informed choices about what is best for them and their baby based on their values and beliefs.

Why “my birthing bestie”?

I named my doula business "My Birthing Bestie" because I want to show just how supportive and close a doula can be throughout the birth journey. Think of a doula as that friend who’s always there for you, cheering you on, offering guidance, and helping you feel at ease during every step of this incredible experience. I believe a doula should be more than a professional; they should feel like a trusted buddy who’s by your side no matter what. With "My Birthing Bestie," I want you to know that I’m here for you—just like a best friend would be.